Types of fear

Fear can be classified into many types of weak character traits; with each type of fear bearing a different type of impact on the life of a person. It can be imagined or irrational which  may include fear of being rejected,  being ridiculed, failing,  facing public etc which may have no standing at all and can lead us to live a coward life.

The second type of fear is more logical and understandable. It is imperative to know that fear is not always  a weak character trait or something bad. It can also be a quality of charter which tends to ring only when a person analyzes the gravity of a situation and senses that it may harm him so he eventually evades it. This is being vigilant in self defense to avoid perils that can be great risks of loss of life, money, material etc. In this regard fear is an emotion which helps us.

However; with regard to personality development, fear is mainly analyzed in terms of the negative impacts it has on individuality.

Impacts of fear

• It negates all channels of facing reality and being practical
• It is a weak character trait which can be a baseless cause of living in isolation if the fear is imagined or assumed – which may have no scope in reality at all.
• It is a great set back to will power and determination.
• Allows situations, things and people to surpass and manipulate them.
• Makes a person compromise with what they have despite their desire to explore and achieve more.
• Makes a person insecure towards situations, people and things- depending upon what he / she fears.
• Does not leave room for perfection and self development .
• Is a factor that greatly contributes to a sensitive and weak character and sensitive individuality.
• Leads to shyness and hesitation which are other negative traits of behavior that encumber positive development.

Strategies to overcome fear

Fear is usually not as serious and harmful as it may apparently be perceived ; though at times it may be a difficult situation – but nothing is impossible. Its confrontation actually turns out to be more simple and less horrific than thought. Here are the step-wise strategies to overcome it.

• Analyze your fear -Sit down to business and root out what you actually fear. Denying or evading them due to embarrassment or any other reason will block your intention  and attempt of overcoming it.
• Root out the cause-Figure out its cause and analyze is it really worth it and is it rational and logical or assumed.
• Trial -If you at once can’t muster up the courage to deal with it, assume the situation, thing or person and try thinking of the best options to deal with it. Practicing in solitude will rule out the parameters of action you may try when you face it in reality.- it is basically beforehand homework.
• Confront it-For your personal growth of personality go and face  your weak personality traits with a spirit that hard work is the key to success.
• Be persistent -Repeat your encounters with what you fear. Initially shortcomings and failures will only make you want to urge more to get a grip over it.

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It develops mainly in childhood; whereby limited or no social interaction, domestic environment, lack of participation and fear  tend to negate one’s ability to gain the confidence to make ones self be noticed and heard. Such a weak character trait in a personality tends to remain in the background despite having all that caliber which can make them successful in life.

POSITIVE IMPACTS OF SHYNESS

However; Just because a person tends to remain in the background due to shyness, hesitation or insecurity, it should not be mistaken for  being incompetent or a weak personality. Though  this weak character trait  is a factor which promotes many shortcomings in behavior and determination and needs immediate attention; yet people who are shy are great observers who tend to introspect  things very profoundly and have strong and judicious judging abilities which makes them more decisive, intelligent, wise, vigilant and articulate In their thought and perceptions  than other people who tend to react and think  impulsively. Their academic standing is stronger than their professional field of action where confidence is the key to success. These qualities of a personality which are an outcome of shyness tend to hone out an individual who is alert and well aware of what he has to do- but this is where his limit of actions tend to end.

NEGATIVE IMPACTS OF SHYNESS

Due to this weak character trait  and inability of being inexpressive, a person due to shyness is not able to implement his plan of actions in the best of manner and the upshot is domination and suppression by others.  He tends to let himself be manipulated by what others think and want to do while His own opinions and views tend to linger on with his desires. From the professional perspective, shyness is a serious weak character trait which is a factor that can overshadow your scope of promotions and distinction because life is a race and only the toughest survive.  Letting shyness as a weakness overwhelm your  skills , is a signal for others to surpass you- which they will happily be obliged to do.

 OVERCOMING SHYNESS

It is imperative to realize the drawbacks of shyness and the negative impacts it bears on your personality.

• Deliberate efforts should be implemented willingly to negate its creepy growth since day one of childhood. This piece of homework
  is for the parents who should encourage participation, social exposure and extracurricular activities of their children in school so that they have that factor of courage in the evolutionary stages of personality development.
• For grownups the situation of this weak character trait is different as many social and personal influences and experiences can be a ground of shyness in them. For them How to do this? Foremost sit down and think over what hampers your abilities to be unexpressive and work on those flaws by exposing yourself to situations, things and people that you are apparently and needlessly hesitant or fearful of.
• Incessant interactions, extra social activities and participations are some of the punch lines of gaining confidence in you and eradicating the trait of hesitancy.

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